24 Apr 2019
by parichitasingh
in A to Z Posts
Tags: #a2zchallenge, #aprila2z, atozchallenge, Gone With the Wind, letter u, United States
U was a difficult
letter for me. I almost gave up on writing for U because I couldn’t find a book
which described such a place. But then, I realized that USA starts from “U” too,
and there definitely is a book which had made me aware about US and the civil
war is “Gone With the Wind”. I have talked a lot about this book already in my
past posts, so I am not going to explain the virtue of the book in this post.
So, with “U”, I am going to talk about US, especially Southern US.
I wasn’t aware about
much of the history apart from what is told in history classes. I had known
about the civil war that happened in US, but while reading history books, one
is not able to imagine the pain of losing so many young men, the hunger that
must have been perpetual, the fear of the women etc. These are the factors that
you see in the stories only. This story brought US-South of that era alive. I
could see the parties, the tiny waists, the corsets, the plantations, and even
the wars.
The South of that time
felt overloaded with formalities. There is a quote in which Mammy tells Scarlett
to eat before the party because “you can always tell a lady by the way she eats
in front of folks like a bird”.
The setting is such an
integral part of the story that it is a bit difficult to define it in a post. But
it does cover the horrors of the war and one of the quotes I love is:
“All wars are sacred,” he said. “To those who have to fight them. If the people who started wars didn’t make them sacred, who would be foolish enough to fight? But, no matter what rallying cries the orators give to the idiots who fight, no matter what noble purposes they assign to wars, there is never but one reason for a war. And that is money. All wars are in reality money squabbles. But so few people ever realize it.”
23 Apr 2019
by parichitasingh
in A to Z Posts
Tags: #a2zchallenge, #aprila2z, atozchallenge, book review, letter T, Poonachi, Tamil Nadu
For T, I want to talk about Tamil Nadu from a book called Poonachi. This is state which I have seen quite closely because of various visits in different parts of the state. Most of these visits were official. Only a few personal visits have been to Tamil Nadu. Poonachi is a book which I read very recently. I got this book as a part of the Prime program and wanted to see what is so special about the book. The book did not disappoint me as it explained the life of female goat from its birth to its death.
The setting in this
book is not very strong, but it is inherent in the story itself with some fantastical
elements weaved in. The story starts with a pondering of rain, wherein the narrator
observes that people crib when it rains too much, and they complain when it
doesn’t rain as well. This is a true enough sentence, but with my travels and
my friends, I have learned this is quite commonly spoken dialogue in Tamil. The
story moves further and explains a sunset that the narrator sees while the
goats are moving around and frolicking nearby. Then he is given the gift of a very
feeble goat called Poonachi, whose story this is.
The description of
setting is mostly limited to parts and pieces afterwards, but still, the story
carries in it the aroma of the south India in it. The words like dhooyi, ayah
etc. roots the story in southern part of India, while the people’s taunts about
dark colour and puny shape are like social commentary.
As I said, the story veers
in a bit of political foreplay by showing a regime which likes to number the goats
and is made out to be quite oppressive. But despite the non-matching of these
political situations, the story does transport you in Tamil Nadu. And for a
moment, you wonder whether you want to live as a woman in one of the interior
villages of Tamil Nadu or not.
22 Apr 2019
by parichitasingh
in A to Z Posts
Tags: #a2zchallenge, #aprila2z, atozchallenge, letter S, Romance, Scotland
This post is the proof that I am not ready to give up. I might not be consistent, but I am determined. And I am going to finish all the alphabets
I am writing about
today’s alphabets, and rest of the alphabets I will catch up slowly and
steadily. Please cheer for me as I fight for my time to write.
“S” is such a common
letter that it can represent millions of things. When I started thinking about
the places, I thought of writing about Shire from “Lord of the Rings”. I dreamed
about it, you know—peaceful expanse of land, greenery, flowing rivers, and
hobbit-holes. It is like one of the dream places. But there is something else
from “S” which is special for me—Scotland.
This also comes from reading
a lot of romance novels. Like Ireland, I know every inch of Scotland. I know
there are glens, mountains, standing stones, and their English is a bit
different from ours. What else I know about Scotland? That there are times when
the ground is covered with purple flowers of heather and that there are
castles. I know more about the war between England and Scotland from these
romance novels than from my history books. I also know that there is a falconry
somewhere in Scotland.
Like Ireland, this is
my dream place. Someday, I will visit the Scotland. I don’t know whether I will
find the Scotland I read of or not, but I am sure it will be magical still.
And, now I realize I did not mention any author here. There are many, actually.
But the very first author who introduced me with Scotland is Julie Garwood.
She taught me a lot of things about Scotland. Then came Diana Gabaldon
with her Outlander series. There have been many more books and authors in
between, but these two are the most influential authors for me.
09 May 2017
by parichitasingh
in A to Z Posts, Musings
Tags: #a2zchallenge, #aprila2z, atozchallenge, atozreflections, books, life, musings, personal
There should always be a post about lessons learned after finishing a challenge, an introspective view of whether I achieved what I wanted to achieve or not. That’s my motto for almost everything. That’s how one grows!
- Life will always be difficult. During the month of April, I thought that the month was tough. I actually wondered if what I was facing was depression—such was my mood. But then now when the 10 days of May have passed and I feel a bit better, I think I can conclude that life is going to be difficult. It is up to me only to pick myself up and move on.
- I failed badly at writing daily in the challenge. In fact my posts were written in the spurts of inspiration. I don’t think I lacked the will to write; it was more of the time and mood thing. Lessons learned here is perhaps I should stop wishing to write daily. This might be 50th time that I have failed at it.
- I need to schedule things in advance rather than writing them at the last minute. Most of my posts were written after 11:30 at night. I was in so much of rush to post them that I did not even revise them properly. I need to learn to end this last minute rush. It is too taxing for my mind.
- There is no alphabet which won’t inspire me. When I started the challenge, I was afraid that I might not find sufficient things to write about. But despite all this, I did find sufficient things to write about. In fact, I had to even select from the many themes I wanted to talk about. So, only thing that I need to write is the will to write and the writing instrument.
Overall, the challenge was semi-successful. I was able to regain my will to write again, but then I failed at developing the daily writing habit. The good part of it was that I managed to finish 26 alphabets in this blog at least.
For all the people who supported me and discussed my posts with me, thanks a lot.
29 Apr 2017
by parichitasingh
in A to Z Posts
Tags: #a2zchallenge, #aprila2z, #aprilatoz, atozchallenge
Last post of the season, with Z, I want to talk about zero t hero phenomenon. We are delving in romance novels again today. There is this guy who is nothing—a stable boy, a helping hand, a nobody—and then suddenly they are handed over a company and they are able to perform exceptionally well in these companies.
Forget the fact that they have no idea about how the companies are run. Forget that they have not acquired sufficient qualification yet, but they end up making just the right decision and be at the top. I feel so sorry for all those people who have spent midnight oil in studying and working to reach that position.
I am not against rich and successful heroes, but I am against characters who have to do totally no journeys. They just get a chance, and they become successful. I read about such characters and I am like murmuring, “Oh, do you know that being a successful person involves more than flying from one place to another, more than merely talking on phone.” I know novels are not supposed to show the strategic plans for companies, but something should at least be shown to showcase that the character has worked to reach that place. Mere zero to hero situation does not satisfy me as a reader.
With this, I have discussed 26 things that I relate to or do not relate to in the books. The consolidated post of my learnings will come up soonish. Thank you for traveling with me in this challenge.
29 Apr 2017
by parichitasingh
in A to Z Posts, Musings
Tags: #a2zchallenge, #aprila2z, #aprilatoz, atozchallenge, books, personal
My confession here is my guilty pleasure too. This is my favorite reading section in any book. The first blush of relationship, the time the love start blossoming—I adore those scenes. I could literally be heard squealing “Aww” while reading such scenes. I would smile unnecessarily recalling those scenes (People do know I am weird, ;;P)
And I am not talking about only the love that exists in YA novels. This is the love, the romance that is everywhere—the unsaid feelings, or the exploratory love(now, it sounds like the exploratory research.. :P) I have read some of those beautiful scenes in the “elderly” women too.
I rarely have any complaints against these scenes. Unless they are badly botched up, they are going to satisfy me as a reader. The only requirement that I have for these scenes to not be the scenes of instalove. Instattraction is okay, insta-hatred is okay too, insta-liking is good too, but no first sight love scenes.
Despite this, in my opinion, many of the Indian romance novels lack in the presentation of these scenes too well. I cannot put my finger on what is missing in those scenes, but there is something which disconnects the readers from these scenes. I wish our writers will grow in their skills to write such beautiful scenes.
29 Apr 2017
by parichitasingh
in A to Z Posts, Musings
Tags: #a2zchallenge, #aprila2z, #aprilatoz, atozchallenge, current times, musings
The third post of the day and we are almost nearing the end. For X, I want to talk again about the idea of everyone being casted in the same shell, especially in YA novels. Almost everyone want to conform to a kind of standard. If you actually list down the features of the characters of these YA novels, they will end up appearing Xerox copy of each other.
Individuality, if there, is actually looked down upon. I understand the need for the social acceptance, I so totally do. But I do feel it quite strange when people are ready to forego everything in such cases.
I guess that’s the true result of peer pressure. In fact I find it strange in the real life too, but books exaggerate it to a great extent. More likely, I feel it is the western culture which is probably reflected there. I think the relationships there are much harsher comparatively. Or probably it is the modern times which are like this. I don’t know what is it, but I just do not enjoy this Xerox culture.
29 Apr 2017
by parichitasingh
in A to Z Posts, Musings
Tags: #a2zchallenge, #aprila2z, #aprilatoz, atozchallenge, personal
Like Gods of last post, I am going to present another word that I learned from the books and that is the witches. When I was growing up, I learned about witches in the fairy tales. They were the evil beings, old, disgruntled with their pointed hat and broom. Then came the era of TV where the Bewitched was being aired and being the witch meant just doing magic of any kind. That was the extent of my knowledge for the Witches. I remember one of the History classes when we were told about the burning of witches without trials. But then also, I did not learn much about the witches.
Come to the current era when I have read many books about witches, and I understand that some people practice witchcraft as religion. I know that there was a time when even the healers were labeled as witches. I know about Wiccans also somewhat. But honestly speaking, I still don’t know who exactly a witch is. I have tried to read about different stuff, but all I get is some historical information. One day, I would just like to talk to a witch to understand what exactly they do.
For me reading about witches is reading about a fantasy world. I do not question the rules that are made in books, but just read about them like I would read about any other fantasy.
29 Apr 2017
by parichitasingh
in A to Z Posts, Musings
Tags: #a2zchallenge, #aprila2z, #aprilatoz, atozchallenge, musings, personal
This post is not at all about religion. It is more about the ritual and inspirations about the book. I know about Greek mythology and Norse mythology because of books (in addition to the Hindu mythology). What interests me in these books is the representations of these vague gods.
I do not mean any disrespect for any of the followers, but all the lesser gods(I am making a word out here because I am not really sure what do we call the gods who are lower in the rung) are so “human”. They have their all falls and follies, and in all these mythological stories, the people we know as the heroes today are represented as higher “gods”.
It is interesting to note that even though their gods, they are not above the baser sins and desires. When the first time I read such a story(it was Aphrodyte), I was amazed when the book jacket quoted that it was a book based on mythology. Their behavior was so different from the values we were taught. And there were just so many mistakes in the verdict of these gods. I ended up being fascinated by the “grey characters” more. Medusa had my greatest sympathy. I just could not associated with Zeus. These stories made me feel that I was cheated out of my gods. My Gods were supposed to be perfect and flawless beings, but these were the most flawed creatures. I did a whole course on Coursera on Greek myth to really understand how these creatures were developed. I read Odyssey end to end. I still am fascinated with the subject, and I still believe that reading about these Gods is a different experience.
28 Apr 2017
by parichitasingh
in A to Z Posts, Musings
Tags: #a2zchallenge, #aprila2z, #aprilatoz, atozchallenge, musings, uninterrupted love
This is one topic which definitely needs to be discussed. A very famous trope for novels, movies, serials and what not. Hero and heroine go their different paths for whatever reasons, and then they meet again, and bam, there is the same chemistry between them. It’s a bit weird to read such stories because people I know grow. It does not matter whether they are becoming good or bad, but they change. But the characters’ choices remain the same in these stories, and I am always left with the questions like how do you know that he or she is not a serial killer now?
And I’m not against their falling in love with each other again or being friends again, but there is not a single attempt to understand the new persons they have become. The air just sizzles because it once did in the past. Friendship is just there because it was there once in the past. Reality I know of is not like that. There might not be any sparks left at all. People grow out of love and attraction too, especially if there is such a long gap. There might be the awkwardness of the distance.
Suppose you know a person and you have a crush on the person, but you guys never communicated. That chance is then gone for now, and it does not mean that if you meet that guy or girl after 10-15 years, that person will be your choice. But in the stories, it happens like that most of the time. Forget the 10-15 year gap, it happens after the reincarnations as well. One death has come in between, yet the chemistry is still there. I always wonder what was the point of dying if someone is going to go through the same route again?
The true representation would be when character meet again and rediscover each other, and rather than being in love with memory, they be in love with the new person. The books which try to sell uninterrupted love get a bit of skeptical reaction from my side.
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